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QUESTION:

Hi
Your book is great; I have a question: if a girl says to you that she has a boyfriend does she mean it or it is just a way to repel a potentially crazy stranger; I was trying to pick up a fine-looking waitress at a night club, she seemed nice to me but when after a friendly small talk I asked her if she would have coffee with me after her shift she told me about her boyfriend. Should I have persisted ?

ANSWER:

Persistence is what will always set you apart from the other guys, but it has to be INTELLIGENT persistence.

*Let's get out of here*
The guiding principal behind most of these books is that the guy will get a woman so thrilled and giddy with connecting body language and covert touching that you won't have enough time to make a rational decision about whether or not you're interested, and that you'll act (and go home with him) from a purely emotional level. When he thinks you might be receptive, he'll ask if he can give you a ride home or if you want to go somewhere else.

Guys who act boring or who act like nerds when they meet women in person, tend to exhibit the SAME behavior ONLINE, and thus get the SAME results, often referred to as “frustration” and “dry spells”.

As readers of my eBook and this newsletter are aware, women simply feel REPULSED by guys who are desperate, lonely, or needy. Women also want to puke when they meet a guy who is expecting the WOMAN to lead the way. It also helps if the guy can actually have an EXCITING or at least INTERESTING and FUN conversation, if he can be playful and not so serious, as this is just plain FUN and also is interpreted by a woman as a sign that he has everything under control, which makes her feel relaxed.

CLASSIC MISTAKES GUYS MAKE ONLINE:

1. SENDING A WOMAN A MANUSCRIPT.
That means accepting none of the current baloney that is currently passing in many circles as *a relationship*. You MUST be a leader in this regard, because society's idea of a relationship is absurd and a formula for disaster. Oddly, today, a man must not only be the leader in terms of initiating contact and sex, but he must also show WOMEN the way a relationship works. Women, in their quest for equality, have abandoned that which they value most, and will THANK you for taking command and accepting nothing less than the best for a relationship


The joke about her watching the Flintstones for knowledge is GUTSY and CONFIDENT.. and FUNNY.

Everything you do with a woman, must be combined with conveying that you are the most desirable man on the planet- confident, popular, successful, and worthy of trust. This does NOT mean to lie. It means to put your BEST FOOT FORWARD, through all the SUBTLE yet crucial nuances that convey you are the BEST. Listen, women prep themselves for HOURS with make-up themselves look the BEST that they can. Actually, it makes them look BETTER than they are, But nobody ever accuses women of being deceitful by wearing sexy clothing and makeup.

If you are going to give a compliment to a woman, or if you are going to give trust to a woman, do it through the prism of being the most desirable man- i.e. let her EARN it from you, and then believe me, she will value it far more, since it came from someone who is selective.

Okay, number three, establishing the connection.